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the truth about having it all


I talk a lot on this blog about my life which includes my family, my career, my list of extra-cirricular activities and the balancing act that is some times more successful than other times.  I think that the truth of the matter is where ever you are in your life, if you have a family, if your single and have a boyfriend/girlfriend and/or furchild, a job or a career, you are working in some sort of state of balance.  It's tough to achieve and even more difficult to figure out what works best for you and your circumstance.  And that's what is so important to achieving that balance, understanding that your circumstance, your experiences are your own and comparing them to others simply won't work and in most cases make your feel worse about yourself.

That's why the traditional definition of 'having it all' bothers me.  Mostly because I believe that we all have different definitions of 'having it all'.  For me, having it all means being able to participate in activities and build my life in ways that fulfills me.  It may not be your definition of having it all or even close to the text book standard, but I feel happy and I do feel like I have it all.  I can't say that I'm always successful at the balance part, but life is about practice, right? 

So what's your definition of having it all? How do you work to achieve balance in your life?

This season don't forget to tune into the Style Network to watch as Tia & Tamera (that's right of Sister, Sister fame - TGIF, baby!) work on balance and having it all in their lives.  Season three of “Tia & Tamera” follows the twin sisters as they redefine their roles and tackle new ventures, from an exciting business opportunity to big projects to a baby in the family.  Tia & Tamera is Light-hearted, Warm, Playful, Young, Aspirational but Relatable, Stylish.

This post is sponsored by the Style Network, a channel that I truly enjoy.

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